A contingent of parents and their kids from our Transfamily Support Group marched today in the annual Santa Cruz Pride parade.
audience lining the sides of Pacific Ave. were very generous with their applause,
thumbs up and smiles for us. "Yeah mom" and "thank you"
were common refrains. One of our parents participating for the first time with
her young transgender child was close to tears as she watched her daughter's
happiness and spirit grow as she waved to the cheering and applauding crowd.
For myself, this was my third year marching, the first year I sobbed the whole walk
because I was so overwhelmed by all the support from the audience. Being the
parent of a gender nonconforming child is not easy. It can be scary and
challenging no matter what age the child and the sheer volume of love felt
families from our support group choose not to march in the Pride parade for a
variety of reasons, and that's perfectly okay, but those of us that did
got to experience a very affirming moment in our lives.
booth we met other trans youth excited to pick up a brochure about our support
group meetings to give to their parents who needed help accepting them. We also
handed out over 200 #I'llGoWithYou buttons- which is a national campaign to
alert gender nonconforming people who are in fear of using public bathrooms
that the button wearer is an ally and can be asked to be nearby for safety.
these buttons all afternoon being worn proudly.
booth was also visited today by an elderly trans man in a wheel chair sporting
a fabulous big old beard, who said he had transitioned 25 yrs ago and he wished
our family support group had been around long ago before both his parents died.
longer cry every year as I march but I still feel the powerful love and support
of our local community in Santa Cruz each year at our Pride parade.
Upcoming Local TransFamilies Meetings for Parents and Caregivers:
Santa Cruz Meeting:
Saturday December 7, 3-5 pm
The Education Room of Calvary Episcopal Church
532 Center St, Santa Cruz, CA
Calvary Episcopal Church is an affirming church that welcomes people of all genders. TransFamilies does not have an affiliation with the church, beyond renting space for our meetings.
Saturday, November 16th 3:00-5:00 pm
46A Brennan St, Watsonville, CA
If you have questions or concerns that need immediate attention before the next meeting,
call us at 831-205-0078 or email: TransFamiliesofSantaCruz@gmail.com.