NEXT MEETINGs:

Upcoming Local TransFamilies Meetings for Parents and Caregivers:

Santa Cruz Meeting:
Saturday December 7, 3-5 pm
The Education Room of Calvary Episcopal Church
532 Center St, Santa Cruz, CA
Calvary Episcopal Church is an affirming church that welcomes people of all genders. TransFamilies does not have an affiliation with the church, beyond renting space for our meetings.


Watsonville Meeting:
Saturday, November 16th 3:00-5:00 pm
46A Brennan St, Watsonville, CA

If you have questions or concerns that need immediate attention before the next meeting,
call us at 831-205-0078 or email: TransFamiliesofSantaCruz@gmail.com.

Thursday, April 18, 2019

Pie for the People fundraiser for TransFamilies Sunday April 28

Join us to eat pie, celebrate our gender-diverse children and support TransFamilies! Pie for the People is holding a fundraiser for TransFamilies.  Pie for the People events are fun and perfect for the whole family.  Everyone brings family and friends, a pie, a small donation and your own plate, utensils, mug and napkins.  Then we celebrate and eat pie together!

If you are not a baker or baking and getting together your own plates and utensils is just outside your band, we get that,  just bring your family, friends and an extra buck or two for your donation. There will be plenty of pie and extra plates and utensils.

This is a public event and everyone is welcome.

When: Sunday April 28 from 1-3 pm at the

Where: Homeless Garden Project Farm at Shaffer Road and Delaware Ave.

More information: http://www.pieforthepeople-santacruz.org

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/560640261109834/

Thursday, February 28, 2019

Understanding Gender: A free workshop for parents, guardians, and other adult allies


Please join us for

Understanding Gender

A free workshop for parents, guardians, and other adult allies who want a deeper understanding of gender and youth
Saturday, March 2, 2019
9:30 am – 2:00 pm
Lakeview Middle School — Watsonville

Registration Open — Sign up today!

Find us on Facebook

Haga clic aquí para información en español

Light breakfast, snacks and lunch provided
Simultaneous Spanish Translation provided
Understandings of gender are changing rapidly and it can be challenging to keep up! Parents might believe that they only have to pay attention to their child’s gender if it falls outside of traditional gender norms. While it is true that transgender, non-binary, and otherwise gender-expansive children are particularly at risk, every child is limited by traditional gender roles and stereotypes. Parents and ally adults play a crucial role in creating a safe and supportive environment for all young people around their gender.
We hope you’ll join us for a day of learning, conversation, and reflection about youth and gender, including such topics as:
  • A framework to help you understand the dimensions of gender
  • Some common terms and the ways in which understandings of gender are changing
  • How children and youth see gender communicated in our society
  • Affirmative parenting practices around gender
  • How your own experiences with gender may affect your parenting
  • Some suggestions for talking with children and teens about gender
  • An informational workshop on the medical aspects of gender transition in youth presented by Dr. Jen Hastings
Schedule for Parent/Guardian/Adult Ally Summit
9:00-9:30 am: Registration and Breakfast
9:30-9:45 am: Introductions, logistics, and visit from local elected officials
9:45-11:45 am (with short break about halfway through):
Overview of Gender presentation by Pam Wool of Gender Spectrum
  • A framework to help you understand the dimensions of gender
  • Some common terms and the ways in which understandings of gender are changing
  • How children and youth see gender communicated in our society
  • Affirmative parenting practices around gender
  • How your own experiences with gender may affect your parenting
  • Some suggestions for talking with children and teens about gender
11:45 am-12:30 pm: Lunch and Mini-resource Fair
12:30-1:30 pm: Two options:
  • Medical Aspects of Gender Transition by Dr. Jen Hastings
  • Parent Panel: Parenting Gender Diverse Kids
1:30-1:35 pm: Short Break
1:35-2:00 pm: Closing, Q&A

Registration Open — Sign up today!

Register by February 28
                   



https://safeschoolsproject.org/queer-summit-parent-guardian-spring-2019/

Wednesday, December 5, 2018

National "I am Jazz" Community Reading

TransFamilies has joined forces with The Diversity Center and the Santa Cruz Public Libraries to host Santa Cruz's second annual "I am Jazz" reading.  Start you First Friday off with us at 3:30 at the Downtown library.  Check out Suki Wessling's companion article that she wrote for Growing Up In Santa Cruz: http://blog.sukiwessling.com/2018/12/i-am-jazz-community-reading/

Wednesday, November 28, 2018




Chat with Renee Fleming
Law Librarian and Self Represented Litigant Coordinator
Santa Cruz Superior Court
About
Changes to the process of requesting a gender change court order
At our December meeting


Renee Fleming, Law Librarian and Self Represented Litigant Coordinator of Santa Cruz Superior Court will join us at our Santa Cruz meeting to share changes to the process of requesting a gender change court order that in accordance with California’s Gender Recognition Act (SB 179) went into effect on September 1, 2018.

We are excited to have Renee join us.  The advise that we have been giving TransFamilies members for many years has been: “talk to the law librarian in the basement”.  The librarian in the basement is Renee! and we are excited to have her come and share her knowledge with us. She met with TransFamilies representatives, Anne Lipman and Dina Oskiera in November of last year to clarify the process of applying for a name and gender change order in Santa Cruz County Superior Court and is joining us to update us on the changes that come with SB 179 going into effect for gender change orders.

Thursday, September 6, 2018

Chat with Jen Hastings, MD on October 6th 3:00-5:00

The October meeting of TransFamilies of Santa Cruz 
will feature guest speaker 
Dr. Jennifer Hastings.


Jen is one of our professional allies and has joined our meetings on previous occasions to  update us on the best medical practices for our kids and hear our concerns about how the medical community can support our kids better. As the former director of the Transgender Health Care Program at Planned Parenthood Mar Monte jen has provided medical services for the Santa Cruz trans community, including a number of our kids, with a level of compassion that has made her universally loved and respected. In addition to being the founding director of the Transgender Health Care Program at Planned Parenthood Mar Monte, Jen is an assistant clinical professor at the UCSF Department of Family and Community Medicine, and a member of the advisory board for Center of Excellence for Transgender Health, which works to increase medical access and understanding about the gender journey. Jen is actively involved in training providers of transgender services around the country and a leader in advocating for increasing the availability and quality of transgender care. Jen works closely with the Santa Cruz Transgender Therapist Team and is involved in the integration of behavioral health, primary care, mindfulness, and medicine.  We are thrilled to have jen available to talk with us and answer our questions about medical care for our children.

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

TransFamilies of Watsonville PV

Our kick off meeting for the new TransFamilies of Watsonville PV is Wednesday September 5th. It will be the first Wednesday of every month from 6:30-8:30 at 46 A Brennan st. Watsonville, Located in Brennan Square, behind Tayo Day Spa. We are very excited to have a space available and a small group of parents. We put the word out at Pajaro Valley pride last month and are spreading the word through the Diversity Center's Watsonville Youth Meet Up and the local GSAs.


This is us at Pajaro Pride with the team from Big Brothers Big Sisters.  Big Brothers Big Sisters has a trans program to match trans kids with trans adults and has been an awesome ally:
Click here for more info

Monday, May 21, 2018

LEGAL NAME/GENDER CHANGE IN SANTA CRUZ COUNTY


This blog post is long overdue. My apology for losing track of this important update for our TransFamiles. Last November 2017, Anne Lipman and I met with representatives at the Law Library of the Santa Cruz Superior Court to discuss how we can make information given to families more consistent when they are seeking legal name and/or gender change through the court. What follows are Anne's excellent notes from that meeting.

Dina Oskiera 
April 4, 2018

Notes for Meeting on November 8, 2017

Santa Cruz County Superior Court Law Library

Attending: 
Sasha Morgan and Renee Fleming of the Law Library
Anne Lipman and Dina Oskiera of TransFamilies of Santa Cruz

Self Help Center in Watsonville or the Law Library in Santa Cruz is the best place to start with the process of pursuing a legal name and/or gender change through the courts. Both can provide forms ($2.00 charge), and help you fill out forms but the Self Help Center in Watsonville is more comprehensive. Show up 1/2 hour before opening in the morning and at lunch for faster service, but plan on going when you are not in a hurry. You are encouraged to stay and fill out forms there, so bring along as much info as possible to help you with forms (birth certificate, Dr’s letter, Therapist letter, etc.) If you don’t know where to start then go and talk with them, and they can help you figure out which forms you need. You may need to go several times before all forms are filled out. Just think of it as part of the process. Keep in mind Watsonville offers free copies of documents, Santa Cruz charges for copies.

Go to one of the above offices as your first step. Do not take forms directly to the clerks to file because they do not know the law as well as the people in these two centers. When you do go to the clerks to file, and you feel you are getting the wrong advice, again, consult with Self Help Center or Law Library. They can intervene on your behalf and get things straightened out for you with clerks. There will soon be up to 6 forms to choose from for gender identity and name change. We highly encourage you to go talk with someone before you start to fill out the forms, so you get the right forms.

Sometimes forms can be accepted by the clerk, but are not filled in correctly. This can cause you trouble down the road such as when you go to get a passport or go to change your birth certificate. Fees can be waived even if you do not meet the criteria for wavers on the paperwork. Families can list their expenses to show that that they do not have the money for fees. This may require a little more paperwork but the court does not want anyone to delay this important process because they cannot afford it. Ask if you need help. They will help you!

The law and forms are ever changing. What I did for my child last year may not apply today. We can support you and guide you, but we cannot necessarily tell you what the exact law is or forms needed for each individual case. Only the Help Center or Law Library can truly give you the most up to date info. If you go and then delay filling in the paperwork, make sure to check in with them again before you submit so you can confirm that no forms have changed.

Important websites below:
Self Help Center, Watsonville: http://www.santacruzcourt.org/self-help
Law Library, Santa Cruz: http://www.lawlibrary.org/

Sasha Morgan
Santa Cruz Superior Court
Director of Operations
1 Second Street
Watsonville, CA 95076
Phone (831) 786-7335
sasha.morgan@santacruzcourt.org